Most unhappiness is caused because people listen to themselves... instead of talking to themselves.
William JamesThere must always be a discrepncy between concepts and reality, because the former are static and discontinuous while the latter is dynamic and flowing
William JamesThe gist of the matter is this: Every impression that comes in from without, be it a sentence which we hear, an object of vision, or an effluvium which assails our nose, no sooner enters our consciousness than it is drafted off in some determinate direction or other, making connection with the other materials already there, and finally producing what we call our reaction. The particular connections it strikes into are determined by our past experiences and the 'associations' of the present sort of impression with them.
William James