The solution is to change from the negative to the positive and one way to do that is to remember that failure is an event - it is not a person. Another way is to understand that your child might make a mistake, but the child is not a mistake
Zig ZiglarOnce a need is satisfied, it is no longer a motivator. Satisfaction does not increase motivation
Zig ZiglarYou do not determine your success by comparing yourself to others, rather you determine your success by comparing your accomplishments to your capabilities.
Zig Ziglar