You know that he who would be the greatest among you must become the servant of all.
Don't let the mistakes and disappointments of the past control and direct your future.
It is true that integrity alone won't make you a leader, but without integrity you will never be one.
To get what you want help others get what they want
When I discipline myself to eat properly, live morally, exercise regularly, grow mentally and spiritually, and not put any drugs or alcohol in my body, I have given myself the freedom to be at my best, perform at my best, and reap all the rewards that go along with it.
If you are a complainer you might have already spent your HELP quota.