Your mind doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy. Your mindacts on what you feed it. Feed it good thoughts.
One reason people never attempt new things is their fear of failure.
Expect the best. Prepare for the worst. Capitalize on what comes.
It's not the situation, but whether we react, or respond, to the situation that's important.
You gotta have goals!
When you're grieving that's not the time to be brave or strong, you need to let it show