You might not be what you say you are, but what you say, you are.
Quite frequently, he who goes too fast gets there too late - or not at all.
People who accomplish great things work toward their objectives every day.
If you go out looking for friends, they'll be scarce. If you go out looking to be one, you'll have all the friends you need.
If you go looking for a friend, you're going to find they're very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere.
The great majority of people are “wandering generalities” rather than “meaningful specifics”. The fact is that you can't bit a target that you can't see. If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else. You have to have goals.