If you are still following your likes and dislikes, you have not even begun to practise Dhamma.
Ajahn ChahWhen sitting in meditation, say, "That's not my business!" with every thought that comes by.
Ajahn ChahSome people are afraid of generosity. They feel they will be taken advantage of or oppressed. In cultivating generosity, we are only oppressing our greed and attachment. This allows our true nature to come out and become lighter and freer.
Ajahn Chah