I refuse to be silenced.

I am not a prisoner of my sexuality like men younger than myself although I write about being a prisoner.

So, if anatomy is destiny then testosterone is doom.

Married sex is like being awake during your own autopsy. It is root canal work without anesthetic.

Our photographs are filthier and our stories are more disgusting. We make no effort to be artistic.

For me working on the marriage and not making the easy choice of cheating was something that I could not do.

I'm a crusader. I really believe in the First Amendment, and I use it fully, and I pay a price for that.