For paranoia about 'what other people think' : remember that only some hate, a very few love - and almost all just don't care.
Alain de BottonMaturity: knowing where you're crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
Alain de BottonThere is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
Alain de Botton