The more familiar two people become, the more the language they speak together departs from that of the ordinary, dictionary-defined discourse. Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.
Alain de BottonOne of love's greatest drawbacks is that, for a while at least, it is in danger of making us happy.
Alain de BottonWe don't really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped ... We suffer, therefore we think.
Alain de BottonA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
Alain de Botton