While there seem to be many things to manage in the world, the most important thing to manage is your consciousness.
Do not resist events that move you out of your comfort zone, especially when your comfort zone was not all that comfortable.
Guilt: punishing yourself before God doesn't.
Money is your friend. Your body is your friend. Life is your friend.
The love affair you seek is with yourself.
Life does not require you to sacrifice or compromise your joy to get what you want. Joy is what you want, so when you choose in harmony with it, you are fulfilling your purpose in living.