Humility is born of the spirit, humiliation of the ego.
Stay aligned with your intentions and your good will find you.
The point of life is not to be married or single - it is to be. We are human beings, or humans being. It does not matter so much what lifestyle we choose - it's what we make of the opportunities to grow, that counts.
Don't talk yourself out of following your heart. Talk yourself into it.
Be kind to everyone, and don't leave yourself out of the equation.
Life does not require you to sacrifice or compromise your joy to get what you want. Joy is what you want, so when you choose in harmony with it, you are fulfilling your purpose in living.