If you have to have it, it's ego. If you have to not have it, it's ego. Hold life lightly and it will deliver what you need and release what you don't.
Alan CohenIf you are not living with a whole heart now, the end of the world poses no threat; your life is already gone. Life is only as valuable as our presence to enjoy it. To miss the beauty of the moment because you are preparing to protect yourself from the next one, is to trade a precious gem for a cheap trinket.
Alan CohenAs you recognize that you already own the wholeness you seek, and no one outside you can give you more than you already are, dysfunctional situations will evaporate like bad dreams exposed to the morning sun.
Alan CohenFocus on the highest, clearest, and most meaningful teaching you can find, and let all else go.
Alan CohenHalf of your power lies in your sameness with others. The other half lies in your uniqueness.
Alan CohenThose who love you are not fooled by mistakes you have made or dark images you hold about yourself. They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness when you are broken; your innocence when you feel guilty; and your purpose when you are confused.
Alan CohenThe only real knowledge is who you really are - a spiritual being created in the image in the likeness of a loving God. If you know that, everything you do will honor the wisdom and beauty you already own.
Alan CohenThe world would have you agree with its dismal dream of limitation. But the light would have you soar like the eagle of your sacred visions.
Alan CohenThe world you see is less of an indication about the world and more of an indication about your seeing.
Alan CohenTo grow, you must be willing to let your present and future be totally unlike your past. Your history is not your destiny.
Alan CohenThe only thing more important than being good is being real. Authenticity is kinder than resignation without conviction. Truth leads to good faster than good leads to truth. Ultimately truth is good, but you have to live it from the inside out.
Alan CohenIf you act anxiously to hasten your results, you delay their arrival. Calm poise reveals the shortest route home.
Alan Cohen'Confusion is the last stop on the way to clarity,' he told me. 'The part of your mind that thinks it knows it all is butting up against a bigger idea. It's only a matter of time until the smaller thought gives way to the greater. Don't fight it. Just try to enjoy the ride.'
Alan CohenWhen you invest your time and energy in stuff that drags you down, you die a little bit every day.
Alan CohenThe difference between famous creators and struggling artists is that the creators know that improving the lives of others deserves the highest reward.
Alan CohenAnyone in a state of seeking can never be happy. Only those who are constantly finding are fulfilled. And finding is not something that happens to us - it is something we do.
Alan CohenGive people permission to be who they are and they will love, thank, and respect you forever.
Alan CohenAppreciation empowers not just money transactions, but all interactions. Gratitude is one of the greatest meditations of a lifetime, the fastest attitude uplifter I know. Be grateful for all the good in your life and your good will only increase, along with your happiness.
Alan CohenIt is not insult from another that causes you pain. It is the part of your mind that agrees with the insult. Agree only with the truth about you, and you are free.
Alan CohenEvery day the word 'gift' is used to define talent, ability, and performance. Being gifted has an even deeper meaning, a meaning that isn't always measured in points per game or win/loss records - it's measured by heart, effort, and desire.
Alan CohenThere is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
Alan CohenYou are in integrity when the life you are living on the outside matches who you are on the inside.
Alan CohenTo be a miracle worker you do not have to get a doctoral degree, become a minister, eat a particular food, or be able to meditate for long hours. All you need to do is to begin to see beauty in your life and those around you.
Alan CohenYour life is not a problem to be solved, but an adventure to be enjoyed. You are doing better than you think.
Alan CohenThe more you recognize the immense good within you, the more you magnetize immense good around you.
Alan CohenThe people who are successful are those who are grateful for everything they have. Giving thanks for what we have always opens the door for more to come, and ungratefulness always closes the door.
Alan CohenThe freest people I know are those who have the least to hide, defend or protect. Naked is powerful.
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