The emotionally sound person should be able to take risks, to ask himself what he really would like to do in life, and then to try to do this, even though he has to risk defeat or failure. He should be adventurous (though not necessarily foolhardy); be willing to try almost anything once, just to see how he likes it; and look forward to some breaks in his usual life routines.
Albert EllisWe can't change the past, so we change how people are thinking, feeling and behaving today.
Albert EllisThe world consists mainly of love slobs who need other people's approval. Most people don't live their own lives very well.
Albert Ellis