Unless, of course, you insist on identifying yourself with the people and things you love; and thereby seriously disturb yourself.
Albert EllisThe world consists mainly of love slobs who need other people's approval. Most people don't live their own lives very well.
Albert EllisI had a great many sex and love cases where people were absolutely devastated when somebody with whom they were compulsively in love didn't love them back. They were killing themselves with anxiety and depression.
Albert Ellis