Sometimes we have to put our foot down, ... but before we deliberately make children unhappy in order to get them to get into the car, or to do their homework or whatever, we need to weigh whether what we're doing to make it happen is worth the possible strain on our relationship with them.
Alfie KohnContrary to what you think, your company will be a lot more productive if you refuse to tolerate competition among your employees.
Alfie Kohn