Western parents try to respect their children’s individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions, supporting their choices, and providing positive reinforcement and a nurturing environment. By contrast, the Chinese believe that the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they’re capable of, and arming them with skills, work habits, and inner confidence that no one can ever take away.
Amy ChuaQuestioning authority is, I think, a great thing to instill in children. I just didn't have enough of that when I was little.
Amy ChuaWhen my kids wanted to give up on things, I wouldn't let them, and those are lifelong lessons.
Amy ChuaI think if you're a 'tiger parent' early on, you don't need to be a 'helicopter parent' in high school.
Amy ChuaBe modest, be humble, be simple.Make sure you come in first so that you have something to be humble about.
Amy Chua