I hate the comparative idea that you have to love your spouse more than you love your parents.
Andrew SolomonThe experience of being depressed and emerging from depression made me understand the idea of a soul. I felt that the language in which one could best acknowledge that drew from faith.
Andrew SolomonParenthood always involves recognizing your child as separate and different from you.
Andrew SolomonIf your love didn't always contain the possibility of loss, it would be very different from human love as we know it.
Andrew SolomonI found myself losing interest in almost everything, I didn't want to do any of the things I had previously wanted to do and I didn't know why. Everything there was to do seemed like too much work. The opposite of depression is not happiness, but vitality, and it was vitality that seemed to seep away from me in that moment.
Andrew Solomon