Good women always think it is their fault when someone else is being offensive. Bad women never take the blame for anything.
Anita BrooknerOne loses the capacity to grieve as a child grieves, or to rage as a child rages: hotly, despairingly, with tears of passion. One grows up, one becomes civilized, one learns one's manners, and consequently can no longer manage these two functions - sorrow and anger - adequately.
Anita Brookner