calls for equal treatment are often seen as calls for 'special treatment' in situations where discrimination has become the norm.

But I think it would be irresponsible for me not to say what I really believe in my heart to be true - that there are some serious inequities that we face as women and that we can work to address these inequities

I thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. However, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions

I'm not sure I can say there is a clean line between me as an individual and me as a lawyer.

You can't always expect a certain result, but you can expect to do your best.

For my undergraduate work, I went to Oklahoma State University and graduated from there in 1977

Because I was extremely uncomfortable talking about sex with him at all and particularly in such a graphic way, I told him that I did not want to talk about these subjects.