One possible reason that I don't believe in fate is that I wasn't fated to.
My life shows a clear pattern of total unpredictability.
It's hard letting go of the past, when there are no firm handholds in the future.
I too have known joy and sadness, and, on the whole, I prefer joy.
Due to circumstances beyond my control, I am master of my fate and captain of my soul.
Words are a wonderful form of communication, but they will never replace kisses and punches.