It is often thought that the Buddha's doctrine teaches us that suffering will disappear if one has meditated long enough, or if one sees everything differently. It is not that at all. Suffering isn't going to go away; the one who suffers is going to go away.
Ayya KhemaIf we want to be loved, we are looking for a support system. If we want to love, we are looking for spiritual growth.
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