Only when your consciousness is totally focused on the moment you are in can you receive whatever gift, lesson, or delight that moment has to offer.

A lot of people don't know what they want or they want much less than they deserve.

It is inherent in human consciousness to improve. So there is nothing unique about a people searching for and creating ways to make their life better - all civilizations throughout history have done this. What is unique about us in America is the accelerated rate at which we continually search for novelty and progress.

If you don't develop your skill at enjoying what you have, you won't be any happier when you get more.

Women need real moments of solitude and self reflection to balance out how much of ourselves we give away.

when your field is architecture, you go visit the great cathedrals of the world. My field was relationships. I got married many times. I was practicing. I didn't date much; I just would get married. I thought, why waste time?

The greatest gift you and your partner can give your children is the example of an intimate, healthy, and loving relationship.