Women are often belittled for trying to resurrect these men and bring them back to life and to love. They are in a world that would be even more alienated and violent if caring women did not do the work of teaching men who have lost touch with themselves how to love again. This labor of love is futile only when the men in question refuse to awaken, refuse growth. At this point it is a gesture of self-love for women to break their commitment and move on.
Bell HooksHope is essential to any political struggle for radical change when the overall social climate promotes disillusionment and despair.
Bell HooksI think it's crazy for us to think that people don't understand what's being foregrounded in their lives at a given point in time.
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