The trick to not thinking is not adding energy to the equation in an effort to forcibly stop thinking from happening. Itโs more a matter of subtracting energy from the equation in order not to barf the thoughts up and start chewing them over again.
Brad WarnerIt's crazy to me how concerned people get with what it looks like and what you can do there. People may as well be talking about JRR Tolkien or Star Trek or something.
Brad WarnerBuddha was a responsible guy and believed in his monks being responsible, their responsibility would no longer be to their practice or to the sangha, but to their child because that's the only honest way to do it. You can't have it both ways. So anytime a monk would have sex, there was always that possibility and it was a very big deal.
Brad Warner