The mind at war with itself does war with any other mind, and that produces war in the world - all of it.
Who would you be without your story?
Bottom line is, if someone says something about me and it upsets me, it's true.
Reality is: Should people steal in this world? Yes. How do I know they should? They all do.
My experience is the opposite.
For me, if somebody tells me to go away, that is an opportunity for me to give them a better life. And that's an opportunity for me to know and realize where not to be. It's an opportunity for me to see what could be better than being with that person I love.