As long as we believe our thoughts, there will always be war.
Life is the constant opportunity to wake up.
After you've been doing inquiry for a while, if you have the thought "She doesn't love me," you just get the immediate turnaround with a smile: "Oh, I'm not loving myself in this moment."
Arguing with reality it like trying to teach a cat to bark.
It doesn´t come later. Everything you´re supposed to do is here right now.
The more you reveal, the more you have to question and the freer you get. Until, finally, you're absolutely exposed. And that leaves you in a fearless position, because you can work in the world without the fear of being found out. That is freedom.