It's not what happens in life that bothers us. It's what we're believing about it that bothers us.
If you question your thoughts about when your son is not healthy, you come to see that you're the only one you're worried about. It's like without him, you're not happy - so it's all about your happiness. You want him to live for you - for your happiness.
I like to say understanding is the power.
A mind that doesn't question its judgements, makes the world very small and dangerous.
The last story: God is everything, God is good.
I invite everyone to question their thoughts about their children and allow their children to be free. That's when we stop teaching our children fear.