If our thinking is clear, how could work or money be the problem? Our thinking is all we need to change.

It's for each of us to look at what we really do believe - what our belief system really consists of.

No one has ever been able to control his thinking, although people may tell the story of how they have. I don't let go of my thoughts-I meet them with understanding. Then they let go of me.

If I want something, I go get it. Anything that I believe will stop me, I question.

It's not what happens in life that bothers us. It's what we're believing about it that bothers us.

Nothing can cost you someone you love. The only thing that can cost you your husband is if you believe a thought. That's how you move away from him. That's how the marriage ends. You are one with your husband until you believe the thought that he should look a certain way, he should give you something, he should be something other than what he is. That's how you divorce him. Right then and there you have lost your marriage.

The pain shows you what's left to investigate.