If you're yelling within you that they shouldn't yell at you, that is where the pain begins, not with their yelling at you.
Byron KatieIf people are living their lives for security and comfort and pleasure, then mind's every waking moment will be plotting those things. That's how it stays identified - as a body, as a you.
Byron KatieAs you inquire into issues and turn judgments around, you come to see that every perceived problem appearing "out there" is really nothing more than a misperception within your own thinking.
Byron Katie