If you're yelling within you that they shouldn't yell at you, that is where the pain begins, not with their yelling at you.
Byron KatieOnce we begin to question our thoughts, our partners-alive, dead or divorced-are always our greatest teachers. There's no mistake about the person you're with; he or she is the perfect teacher for you, whether or not the relationship works out, and once you enter inquiry, you come to see that clearly.
Byron Katie