Rule number one: Why is it that the one time a cute guy talks to you, you have a friend who's in crisis?

Zizi was young and often confused about how to live his life, �and when he made a choice he clung to it with fierce resolve, �as if to beat his uncertainty into submission.

Love is spiritual. It's about self-sacrifice and commitment. And discipline. You cannot have true love without discipline and respect. When you lose the respect of your spouse, you've lost everything.

Rule number three: Best friends always think you deserve the best guy even if the best guy barely knows you exist.

It’s tempting to wish for the perfect boss, the perfect parent, or the perfect outfit. But maybe the best any of us can do is not to quit, play the hand we’ve been dealt, and accessorize what we’ve got.

I love things that are old and glittery, that come with layers of glamour and past lives.

Guys are like dogs: they never notice if you've changed your hair, but they can sense when there's another guy sniffing around their territory