As no one else can know how we perceive, we are the best experts on ourselves.

Though modern Marriage is a tremendous laboratory, its members are often without preparation for the partnership function. How much agony and remorse and failure could have been avoided if there had been at least some rudimentary learning before they entered the partnership.

Experience is, for me, the highest authority.

To be original, or different, is felt to be "dangerous."

In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

Powerful is our need to be known, really known by ourselves and others, even if only for a moment.

A person cannot teach another person directly; a person can only facilitate another's learning