As much as I would miss my wife if she were to die, I would miss what we are together even more. Our "we-ness," our "us-ness."
There are no individuals in the world only fragments of families
When there are kids involved, there's no such thing as divorce.
I have a theory that theories are destructive.
Every marriage is a battle between two families struggling to reproduce themselves.
If we can abandon our missionary zeal we have less chance of being eaten by cannibals.