Research shows that normal young children misbehave every three minutes.
No matter what your current ability is, effort is what ignites that ability and turns it into accomplishment.
What can I learn from this? What will I do next time I'm in this situation?
Wow, that's a really good score. You must have worked really hard.
Failure is information-we label it failure, but it's more like, 'This didn't work, I'm a problem solver, and I'll try something else.'
The whole point of marriage is to encourage your partner's development and have them encourage yours.