When you enter a mindset, you enter a new world. In one world (the world of fixed traits) success is about proving youโre smart or talented. Validating yourself. In the other (the world of changing qualities) itโs about stretching yourself to learn something new. Developing yourself.
Carol S. DweckDid I win? Did I lose? Those are the wrong questions. The correct question is: Did I make my best effort?โ If so, he says, โYou may be outscored but you will never lose.
Carol S. Dweck