Just because some people can do something with little or no training, it doesn't mean that others can't do it (and sometimes do it even better) with training.
Carol S. DweckWhat did you learn today? What mistake did you make that taught you something? What did you try hard at today?
Carol S. DweckIn a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I'm going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here's a chance to grow.
Carol S. DweckSo what should we say when children complete a taskโsay, math problemsโquickly and perfectly? Should we deny them the praise they have earned? Yes. When this happens, I say, โWhoops. I guess that was too easy. I apologize for wasting your time. Letโs do something you can really learn from!
Carol S. Dweck