When you enter a mindset, you enter a new world. In one world (the world of fixed traits) success is about proving youโre smart or talented. Validating yourself. In the other (the world of changing qualities) itโs about stretching yourself to learn something new. Developing yourself.
Carol S. DweckNo matter what your current ability is, effort is what ignites that ability and turns it into accomplishment.
Carol S. DweckJust because some people can do something with little or no training, it doesn't mean that others can't do it (and sometimes do it even better) with training.
Carol S. DweckFailure is information-we label it failure, but it's more like, 'This didn't work, I'm a problem solver, and I'll try something else.'
Carol S. DweckWhy waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better? Why hide deficiencies instead of overcoming them? Why look for friends or partners who will just shore up your self-esteem instead of ones who will also challenge you to grow? And why seek out the tried and true, instead of experiences that will stretch you? The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even (or especially) when itโs not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset. This is the mindset that allows people to thrive during some of the most challenging times in their lives.
Carol S. Dweck