Wow, that's a really good score. You must have worked really hard.

What did you learn today? What mistake did you make that taught you something? What did you try hard at today?

Just because some people can do something with little or no training, it doesn't mean that others can't do it (and sometimes do it even better) with training.

Wow, that's a really good score. You must have worked really hard.

In a growth mindset, challenges are exciting rather than threatening. So rather than thinking, oh, I'm going to reveal my weaknesses, you say, wow, here's a chance to grow.

What did you try hard at today?

The best thing parents can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning.