Effort is one of those things that gives meaning to life. Effort means you care about something, that something is important to you and you are willing to work for it.

I don’t mind losing as long as I see improvement or I feel I’ve done as well as I possibly could.

Did I win? Did I lose? Those are the wrong questions. The correct question is: Did I make my best effort?” If so, he says, “You may be outscored but you will never lose.

It is not always people who start out the smartest who end up the smartest.

If parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children don’t have to be slaves of praise. They will have a lifelong way to build and repair their own confidence.

We like to think of our champions and idols as superheroes who were born different from us. We don’t like to think of them as relatively ordinary people who made themselves extraordinary.

Don't judge. Teach. It's a learning process.