Effort is one of those things that gives meaning to life. Effort means you care about something, that something is important to you and you are willing to work for it.
Choosing a partner is choosing a set of problems. There are no problem-free candidates.
Don't judge. Teach. It's a learning process.
This is hard. This is fun.
Wow, that's a really good score. You must have worked really hard.
You have to work hardest for the things you love most.