I began by acting like the person I wanted to be, and eventually I became that person.

When I'm married I want to be single, and when I'm single I want to be married.

Everyone tells me I've had such an interesting life, but sometimes I think it's been nothing but stomach disturbances and self-concern.

Everyone wants to be Cary Grant. Even I want to be Cary Grant. Let me expand a bit. I sense that you may feel that I am free of problems. Let me assure you that I have the same anxieties and insecurities as anyone in this auditorium - maybe more.

...and there I suddenly found my articulate self in a dazzling land of smiling, jostling people wearing and not wearing all sorts of costumes and doing all sorts of clever things. And that's when I knew! What other life could there be but that of an actor?

My father used to say, 'Let them see you and not the suit. That should be secondary.'

There must be something between us, even if it's only an ocean.