Kind of paradoxically, men are very open minded or very even handed with their votes of women.

Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.

To be universally liked is to be relatively ignored.

Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.

Going to a site with more users seems obviously better to me, but at the same time, having a bland, middle of the road profile with bland, middle of the road pictures seems like a bad strategy to me.

Use correct grammar and punctuation. Do not use net speak, like WOT, W-O-T or U. Those messages get a lot lower reply rate.

People tend to prefer their own race online in terms of the volume of messages.