No, it's not fair, but what makes Earth feel like Hell is our expectation that it should feel like Heaven. Earth is earth. Dead is dead. You'll find out for yourself soon enough. It won't help the situation for you to get all upset.
Hey, even the Mona Lisa is falling apart.
If you died right now, how would you feel about your life?
Sometimes the past seems too big for the present to hold.
Maybe the truth is I really want to like you instead.
I'm always identifying some fallacy in my own life. I'm sort of making fun of myself by exploring and unpacking just why I'm sort of automatically thrown to be a certain way.