The problem in this case was you can't be a middle-aged virgin in America without something being wrong with you. People can't conceive of a virtue in someone else that they can't conceive in themselves. Instead of believing you're stronger, it's so much easier to imagine you're weaker.
Chuck PalahniukThe lower you fall, the higher you'll fly. The farther you run, the more God wants you back.
Chuck Palahniuk