The gentleman calls attention to the good points in others; he does not call attention to their defects. The small man does just the reverse of this.
ConfuciusIs there any one maxim which ought to be acted upon throughout one's whole life? Surely the maxim of loving kindness is such: Do not unto others what you would not they should do unto you.
ConfuciusLook at the means which a man employs, consider his motives, observe his pleasures. A man simply cannot conceal himself!
Confucius