If the basic human nature was aggressive, we would have been born with animal claws & huge teeth -- but ours are very short, very pretty, very weak! That means we are not well equipped to be aggressive beings. Even the size of our mouth is very small. So I think the basic nature of human beings should be gentle.
Dalai LamaHard times build determination and inner strength. Through them we can also come to appreciate the uselessness of anger.
Dalai LamaThe way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful.
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