Kids take work, effort, love, blood, sweat and tears and are a full time job. You have to commit, for better or worse and then give your all and hope for the best. The one thing you can never, ever do is give up and say, 'Oooops, never mind, my bad, you can take this one back'!
Dale ArcherI think the key for a child to do well in a divorce is, very simply, you have to be honest with them.
Dale ArcherYou cannot get PTSD from reading a book or from hearing a story, even repeated stories over and over.
Dale ArcherParenting classes should be mandatory, whether you are adopting or not, and would include an evaluation of your current physical, mental and financial state as well as how ready you are to take on the rigors of parenthood. Our children are our most precious natural resource, and there is absolutely no other way to parent but to put them first.
Dale Archer