Forget yourself by becoming interested in others. Do every day a good deed that will put a smile of joy on someone's face.
Dale CarnegieSo, to prevent fatigue and worry, the first rule is: Rest often. Rest before you get tired.
Dale CarnegieThe very best way in all the world to overcome self-consciousn ess and shyness is to get interested in other people and to think of them and, almost miraculously, your timidity will pass. Do something for other people. Practice deeds of kindness, acts of friendliness, and you'll be surprised to see what happens.
Dale CarnegieRemember that the people you are talking to are a hundred times more interested in themselves and their wants and problems than they are in you and your problems.
Dale CarnegieMen of age object too much, consult too long, adventure too little, repent too soon, and seldom drive business home to the full period, but content themselves with a mediocrity of success.
Dale CarnegieTell a child, a husband or an employee that he is stupid or dumb at a certain thing, that he has no gift for it, and that he is doing it all wrong and you have destroyed almost every incentive to try to improve. But use the opposite technique, be liberal with encouragement; make the thing seem easy to do, let the other person know that you have faith in his ability to do it, that he has an undeveloped flair for it - and he will practice until the dawn comes in at the window in order to excel.
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