A barber lathers a man before he shaves him.
Life is bigger than processes and overflows and dwarfs them.
Mix judgement with ambition and season it with energy. It makes a splendid recipe for success.
Did you ever see an unhappy horse? Did you ever see bird that had the blues? One reason why birds and horses are not unhappy is because they are not trying to impress other birds and horses.
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
You cannot teach a man anything, you can only help him find it within himself.