Stop worrying and start living.
Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude.
So if you aspire to be a good conversationali st, be an attentive listener. To be interesting, be interested. Ask questions that other persons will enjoy answering. Encourage them to talk about themselves and their accomplishments
Do the very best you can.
We move toward what we picture in our minds.
The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most.