Unjust criticism is usually disguised compliment. It often means that you have aroused jealously and envy. Remember that no one ever kicks a dead log.
Dale CarnegieAn effective speaker knows that the success or failure of his talk is not for him to decide - it will be decided in the minds and hearts of his hearers.
Dale CarnegieIf we are so contemptibly selfish that we canโt radiate a little happiness and pass on a bit of honest appreciation without trying to screw something out of the other person in returnโif our souls are no bigger than sour crab apples, we shall meet with the failure we so richly deserve.
Dale Carnegie'When you have a lemon, make a lemonade.' That is what a great educator does. But the fool does the exact opposite. If he finds that life has handed him a lemon, he gives up and says, 'I 'm beaten. It is fate. I haven't got a chance.' Then he proceeds to rail against the world and indulge in an orgy of self-pity .
Dale Carnegie